September 26, 2024
Making the Most of Your Family Maternity Session: Tips for Including Older Siblings
- Families ·
- Maternity ·
- Children
November 2nd and 10th, 2024
I put together this guide because I want you to have the best session ever! I hope you find the contents helpful as you prepare for our session together. I’m excited to create something beautiful with you soon.
You're already doing it by checking out this guide! I put together this guide to help you know what to expect at your session so you can prepare your family. I suggest starting a note or list on your phone for your session that you can add to it when you think of something and so that you have a checklist when finishing your final preparation. I’ve also provided a sample checklist at the end of the guide to help get you started! And finally, you help me prepare for your session by filling out the Session Planning Questionnaire through the link you received in my email or the link at the bottom of this page.
In the week leading up to your session I’ll be keeping an eye on the weather and will let you know if we need to make any adjustments. Everything you need to know about the location and where to meet me is included below.
We will have fun and I will probably crack a joke or two. I’ll have a plan for your session so that we can get started as soon as it is your time slot and will let you know where to stand and what to do as needed.
I’ll go home and fully edit all the best photos from your session. This typically takes 2-3 weeks. When they are ready, I will send you a link to an online gallery full of the beautiful images that we captured of your family. You will choose your included photos and have the opportunity to purchase more if desired, all from your online gallery!
Wheeler's Christmas Tree Farm - 1144 Dogwood Valley Rd, Tunnel Hill, GA 30755
Wheeler's Christmas Tree Farm
1144 Dogwood Valley Rd
Tunnel Hill, GA 30755
There is another Christmas tree farm by the same name in southern Georgia so make sure your directions are taking you to the right one! Hint: if it's going to take a few hours, it's the wrong one! lol
There is a gravel parking area near the trees. I plan to be easy to see and find from the parking area and will hopefully have a balloon marking my position!
The tree farm is closed to the public during your session but there may be 1 or 2 other photographers there at the same time. If in doubt, just ask if you're at the right spot or look for my balloon!
This is probably the #1 question I get asked and I get it! You’re investing time, effort, and money into these photos and you want to look good and you want your photos to look good on the walls of your home and in your holiday cards. I’m happy to help in this area and will give you advice based on the style that best matches my portfolio.
Having a variety of colors, patterns, and textures can help to make your photos more visually interesting but can very easily become distracting if overdone. Here are a few general guidelines to follow to help you do it right and look your best without looking too matchy-matchy!
This family did a really great job of mixing and matching! Everyone is wearing a different pattern or texture and they still coordinate and look great together! Mom's dress was a light-flowing fabric and had tiny blue flowers on it in the shades of Dad's shirt and Baby Girl's dress. Big Sister's dress was corduroy and coordinated in a neutral tone with extra ruffles for fun! Baby Girl's dress had a floral pattern that included brown and neutral tones. Both girls have knit socks and one even had lace on the top! Plus their location included a lot of neutrals and contrast from the warm setting sun and blue shadows of evening time! All-in-all a great example of how your outfits and location help to create a cohesive look.
Choosing what not to wear to your session is just as important as what you do choose to wear. Here is a short list of common fashion faux pas to avoid.
As with all rules, there are exceptions to still dress in a way that is authentic to you while ensuring you also look your best. If you've got questions about a particular piece of clothing or outfit, let me know!
Plan naps and meals/snacks with your session time in mind. If possible, try not to bring any empty stomachs to your session. A snack before your session will keep everyone happy and focused and full of energy. You can even bring a snack or treat to your session! But try to stay away from chocolate/colored items/drinks. Marshmallows make great session treats because they don't stain clothes or teeth and can be eaten quickly!
Pack a bag with things you might need before or during your session such as:
Get the kids excited for your session by talking about it and preparing them for what to expect and what you expect of them. They will pick up on your excitement and bring that energy to your session! Leading up to your session you can talk about how much you love their "real" smile and be quick to point it out and praise them when you see it so that they start to recognize it and feel comfortable smiling. Are there any jokes or funny sounds that always get your clan smiling or laughing naturally? Let me know in the questionnaire so that I can use those prompts for your session. But don't worry, I've also got some jokes of my own that make sure everyone is having a good time.
I’m definitely not above a good bribe but you know your family best. Some children do great with the promise of something fun after the session, like going to get ice cream, and others need more immediate gratification. What works best for your family? I recommend using a combination of both and I have some suggestions. If possible, keep the surprise a secret and if you bring candy or treats to the session, don’t let the kids know you did. I like to see how everyone does first and only bring out the treats if absolutely necessary. I have some tricks I like to use with children who aren’t super interested in having their photo taken and I would prefer to start with those before offering a bribe. Once the bribes come out, the kids sometimes just spend the rest of the session asking when it will be over or require a treat after every photo. In the end, it is up to you and you know your kids best. I also plan your session to be full of fun so that the kids enjoy themselves and enjoy being there without feeling like they have to "perform" for the camera.
Preparation is an essential step in securing the success of your photo sessions! Check out this blog post that incudes 7 Essential Steps to Prepare Kids for Photo Sessions!
Discover effective strategies for bribing kids during photoshoots! Learn when to offer treats and how to motivate different personalities for perfect portraits.
Read it hereDon’t be afraid to pick up your children and toss them into the air during your session! Give your spouse a kiss and tell them how much you love them and appreciate them being there. Tickle the kids or chase them around! Explore the location and collect rocks or leaves or whatever you find. My favorite photographs are often the ones where everyone is otherwise engaged or interacting with each other. Not every picture has to be looking and smiling - though we will get a few. The hugging and laughing photographs may very well be the ones you cherish most because they truly capture your family just the way you are.
If you have any questions or need anything before your session, please reach out! My phone number is (801)645-7312 and my email is ChristianMichellePhotography@gmail.com. If you haven't filled out your session planning questionnaire yet, you can use the link below to access it!
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